Who are your TOP FIVE?

Let's talk #tribe. Did you know we are all a product of the top 5 people we encounter the most. Think about your day, your week. Who influences you? What does that influence say about you? Are you surrounded by positive, like minded people? Do you look at those people and appreciate their position in life? Appreciate their values? What do they say to you during conversations? What words do they use? How are they defined during conflict? During heartache?

Choosing your tribe wisely is a crucial piece to a healthy life. It is a critical step in achieving the ever fleeting happiness we all desire. A tribe can arguably be the most important group of people in our lives and is often more important than our extended families.

Write down your priorities, your goals, your dreams, the goals for your children, the priorities of your marriage. And then listen. Pay attention to your top five. Does your top five align with those priorities, dreams and goals?

Also pay attention to the tribes of your children and your spouse. Who is influencing those you love?

Never settle for just any tribe. You can not create your entire list of contacts, but you can indeed create your top 5. Choose wisely.